Summary: Maturing in our walk with Jesus is a journey of growing closer to Him, developing a more Christ-like character, and living by His will. This process involves continuous learning, seeking God’s guidance, and allowing Him to transform our lives. It is a matter of experiencing union with God to the point where God is part of every aspect of our lives and mirroring His love for others.
Many Christians believe that spiritual growth is mostly about learning more information. The truth is, spiritual growth is not just knowing more about Jesus. Spiritual growth is not just doing more for Jesus. Spiritual growth is living more like Jesus. God wants you to look and act like Jesus. “Those who say they live in God should live their lives as Jesus did” (1 John 2.6). Ephesians 4.13 says, “…measuring up to the full and complete standard of Christ.” Romans 8.29 says, “For God knew his people in advance, and he chose them to become like his Son.…”
God loves you just the way you are, but He loves you too much to leave you the way you are. He wants you to grow up to live just like Jesus. Spiritual maturity doesn’t happen automatically or is it instantaneous. 2 Peter 3:18 says: “Rather, you must grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ….” It takes time to grow; it doesn’t happen quickly. No living thing comes to maturity instantaneously. You can take no shortcut or instant pill to accelerate your spiritual growth. It takes an intentional pursuit, and it’s a continual process to reach maturity in Jesus.
Spiritual maturity requires discipline: 1 Timothy 4:7 says: “Do not waste time arguing over godless ideas and old wives’ tales. Instead, train yourself to be godly.” It is through our daily obedience and discipline of working out the principles of our faith that we experience spiritual growth. It starts with surrender.
We surrender all of life to Jesus by obeying God no matter what. We die to ourselves, die to our agenda and plan for our lives, and submit to God’s. Jesus is on the throne now, and we obey God no matter what happens. We do and say what He would do and say. Surrender is saying, “God, I will give You everything,” and allow Him to change your life.
Your faith and life in Jesus are meant to grow. God works in different people in different ways. Some people grow rapidly, while others grow slowly but steadily. Our focus should not be on comparing ourselves with others, but on comparing ourselves with Jesus Christ.
Discussion Questions:
- How does the Bible describe our union with Christ? What are some of the key images or metaphors used to illustrate this?
- In what practical ways can you grow in your union with God? What spiritual disciplines can help you deepen this connection?