THE CHRISTIAN IN THE DIGITAL AGE

 Christ’s supremacy over all things means that Christians flourishing does not hinge on my adoption or rejection of certain technologies. It hinges on my heart’s focus on the Savior…Whether we buy a seat on a spaceship rendezvous to the moon or stay within the confines of an Amish-like commune, we will find no hope apart from our union to Christ…He frees us from slavery to the technological desires of self-creation and self-determining individualism…Our gadgets and techno-possibilities no longer define us; Christ does. He defines our calling. If we follow his word, we will be protected from being used by our tools.”― Tony Reinke, God, Technology, and the Christian Life.

As Christians living in the digital world, we embrace the benefits technology has brought to life, including the speed and ease of communication and seemingly unlimited information access. There are tremendous benefits and dangers involved in the unwise use of digital technology. God can be honored if we use digital technologies with wisdom and discernment. But we must also acknowledge the negative impacts that digital technology can have on a believer’s mind if they are used unwisely because the heightened level of communication and information is also full of potholes for the Jesus follower.

Technology is dramatically changing our lives year by year.  With instant internet access on (most of) our phones, we have the world under our fingertips. At the same time, we risk limiting the world just to our fingertips. Technology is a gift from God when we use it for human flourishing. But new technology is merely a collection of new tools we invent, share, and use to make things go faster and run more smoothly. Technology makes what we do easier, but it cannot answer our most profound questions. Warren Wiersbe said, “We’re living in the ‘information age,’ but we certainly aren’t living in the ‘age of wisdom.’ Many people who are wizards with their computers seem to be amateurs when it comes to making a success out of their lives. Computers can store data and obey signals, but they can’t give us the ability to use that knowledge wisely. What’s needed today is wisdom.”

When we look at our phones to feel connected, we miss out on the possibilities for real connections. We see this in the example of Jesus himself. In the Bible, we learn several times that Jesus removes himself from everyone else to pray and connect to His Father. This deep connection can balance us, create direction and purpose in our lives, and recharge us for the rest of the day.

But what if Jesus lived in the never offline environment? What if He had a smartphone? Would He be walking in the mountains, checking his Facebook feed first, then His other social media, and then rushing back to His disciples because the day was almost starting without Him? No, He wouldn’t, of course. But this is the risk we run when left to our own devices. Instead of looking for a deep connection, we often fall into the shallow connection of an always-available world. The connection over WiFi is never a substitute for a deep connection with God and others.

Discussion Questions:

  1. How should the believer look at the digital age?

SNOW… IN FLORIDA?

“You set the boundaries of the earth, and you made both summer and winter.” – Psalm 74:17

You thought it would never happen. You woke up as you usually do, your mind running through all your tasks and appointments for the day. You start a pot of coffee, walk over to the window to pull open the blinds, and there it is—lots of snow and cold winds. Your outside thermometer says 21 degrees. To a Floridian, it is: Gloomy. Dark. Frigid. Bone-chilling. Frosty. Bitter. Cold. You live in Florida. You aren’t supposed to be shoveling sidewalks and scraping car windows, dealing with runny noses and rescheduling appointments, trying to find some heavier clothing, and wishing you had a four-wheel drive vehicle even though you never needed it before.

But according to the verse in Psalm 74, God made the summer and winter. It wasn’t a mistake. It’s not like God ran out of heat and made up another season at the last minute. No. He created winter for a purpose. The second part of the verse, “you made both summer and winter.” acknowledges God’s role as the creator and governor of the seasons. The changing of the seasons, from the warmth and growth of summer to the cold and dormancy of winter, is attributed to God’s design and purpose. This speaks to the world’s natural order and emphasizes God’s ultimate power over the cycles of nature.

Snow has a way of shutting things down in our area and bringing things to an abrupt halt, canceling all your plans and rearranging your schedule. It could be God’s way of giving us an extra Sabbath—a forced rest from the daily grind, busy schedules, and constant deadlines.

The stillness of winter can be a reminder to pause and reflect on how God’s hand has been leading us, providing for us, and shaping our lives. Our busy lives often prevent us from taking the time to slow down and listen to God. We may fit in a quick devotional reading in the morning or a quick prayer before bedtime, but our minds usually bounce around to the next thing we need to do. When life slows down, and we’re limited to outside activities, it’s only natural to have more time to be still.

Days like this, when everything is closed, and our to-do list is paused, are an opportunity to spend quality time with God. Unforeseen days like this week are certainly an inconvenience, but being stuck at home is a wonderful reminder of the good slowing down does for our minds, our bodies, and our relationship with God. Instead of being bored or wishing the time away, we can use these rare days to seek God more intently and purposefully. What does he want to do in me? What does he want to do through me? What areas of my life need some renovation?

Whether there is snow or sand outside your window today, may you also be challenged to be still, know that He is God, and find rest in Him alone. Put down your agenda, to-do list, and expectations for the day, and be still.

Discussion Questions:

  1. How can we use these unusual snow days to reconnect to God?

PURSUING JESUS

“But from there you will seek the LORD your God and you will find him, if you search after him with all your heart and with all your soul.” – Deuteronomy 4:29 (ESV).

 Many Christians can remember precisely when they were saved: the date, the time of day, the exact location, the people involved, and the circumstances leading up to the moment when they decided to accept Jesus as their Savior.  Once that decision was made, we wanted more: a deeper relationship and fellowship with Him. And that requires pursuing God.

In his letter to the Philippians, Paul said he had a desire to pursue only one thing:  “I don’t mean to say that I have already achieved these things or that I have already reached perfection. But I press on to possess that perfection for which Christ Jesus first possessed me. No, dear brothers and sisters, I have not achieved it, but I focus on this one thing: Forgetting the past and looking forward to what lies ahead, I press on to reach the end of the race and receive the heavenly prize for which God, through Christ Jesus, is calling us” (Philippians 3:12-14).

When you pursue God, you are chasing after Him to learn more about Him and His way of living life. It is like a father playing hide-and-seek with his young children. He doesn’t want to show his superior ability to hide from them. He wants to be found. It’s easy for His children to see him because He makes it easy. One of the best examples of how to pursue God is Joshua. We read about his determination to know God and His ways in Exodus chapter 33.

“It was Moses’ practice to take the Tent of Meeting and set it up some distance from the camp. Everyone who wanted to make a request of the LORD would go to the Tent of Meeting outside the camp.….Inside the Tent of Meeting, the LORD would speak to Moses face to face, as one speaks to a friend. Afterward Moses would return to the camp, but the young man who assisted him, Joshua son of Nun, would remain behind in the Tent of Meeting” (Exodus 33:7, 11).

Joshua so desired to know God and to learn how He talked to Moses that Joshua stayed in the tent of meeting whenever it was set up. He stayed so that he would always be there whenever God would talk to Moses. Joshua put God first place in his life. His number one priority was learning about God. We should pursue God the same way as Joshua.

Pursuing God takes intentionality. When you pursue, you are chasing after something intending to overtake it. David said this in Psalm 63:1, “O God, you are my God; I earnestly search for you. My soul thirsts for you; my whole body longs for you in this parched and weary land where there is no water.”

Discussion Questions:

  1. How do you pursue God on a daily basis?

REDUCING THE CLUTTER IN YOUR SPIRITUAL JUNK DRAWER

“More important than the junk in our homes, what about the junk in our lives?” – unknown.

Everyone has a kitchen junk drawer, which is a jumbled tangle of half-empty lip balm, pencil stubs and mysterious keys, empty pens, old batteries, and any number of things we find expedient to put in a catch-all drawer. The item is forgotten once in the junk drawer until you cannot close the drawer. That is when it is time to dump the contents of the drawer on the counter and sort through all the items to determine what stays, what goes, and what needs to be put somewhere else.

Most of us have a spiritual junk drawer as well. It is a mix of “Christian” stuff we have collected throughout our spiritual life. Spiritual clutter can be defined as thoughts and worries that consume time and energy and can prevent us from living intentionally and spiritually. It can also include unconfessed sins, bitterness, unforgiveness, expectations, grief, faltering relationships, theology questions, etc. There are always more things we should be concerned about, give attention to, and make room for — somehow. Before long, we find our lives full of clutter.

The problem is when our spiritual junk drawer gets so full, there is no room for Jesus anymore. One place that can quickly become cluttered and fall into disrepair is the human heart. No one else can see these things that clutter our hearts. In many cases, we might not even know that they are affecting us, but the stuff in our junk drawer can take up precious real estate in the part of ourselves where God Himself dwells.

To declutter your heart, begin by taking inventory of what you have allowed to enter this precious space. A first step might be looking at how you spend your time and whether or not it adequately reflects what is most important to you. Like an examination of conscience, this is an opportunity to check in with yourself honestly and where you are.

Have we cleared the clutter to make room to read the Bible, meditate on it, listen to what it says to us, and act on it? Is there room in our budgets for ministries and missions?

Do we clear the clutter to make room in our hearts for Jesus to come in and live? Are our lives lived so that others can see evidence of Christ’s Spirit living in us? You know, love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, gentleness, goodness, faithfulness, and self-control.

In the process, we rediscover the soul-satisfying simplicity of a God who refuses to fill our lives with junk but instead offers grace upon grace.

  

 Discussion Questions:

  1. What areas of your life feel most cluttered right now?
  2. How can you apply the practice of decluttering to your spiritual life?
  3. What practical steps can you take to declutter your environment and mindset this week? 

SLOWING DOWN AND SIMPLIFYING YOUR LIFE

“That’s been one of my mantras – focus and simplicity. Simple can be harder than complex: You have to work hard to get your thinking clean to make it simple. But it’s worth it in the end because once you get there, you can move mountains.” –  Steve Jobs.

Simplifying your life means trying to eliminate those things that steal your time, cause stress, and block you from focusing on what is most important in your life. Typically, the more complicated your life is, the more you tend to be pulled in different directions. How can we simplify life and evaluate our priorities?

We know we need to simplify, but everything seems equally important, and we’re not sure what to let go of and what to keep. If we keep too much, we overextend ourselves. In Matthew 11:30, Jesus says, “For my yoke is easy to bear, and the burden I give you is light.” Following Jesus may involve challenges, but His path is not burdensome because He is with you and provides support, making the load easier to bear. But it is hard to lay it all down and carry only the light burden and easy yoke Jesus talked about when we’ve already taken on more than we can carry.

In Luke 10:39-40, we read the story about Martha and Mary. Martha welcomed Jesus into her home, but then she got “distracted by the big dinner” while her sister Mary “sat at the Lord’s feet and listened to what he taught.

Imagine for a moment that Jesus is speaking to each of us rather than Martha when He tells us, You are worried and upset over all these details! There is only one thing worth being concerned about….” (Luke 10:41-42). It is easy to get wrapped up in the details of life, and we are distracted from the one thing that helps us simplify life.

Only one thing is necessary: Jesus. When we make Jesus our number one priority, He’ll show us what to do and what to let go of. We’ll understand our priorities better when His Holy Spirit leads us. We may not be able to get through everything on our to-do list each day, but we can still focus on one of the most important things: Jesus. We can let go of what we couldn’t get done because we can trust Jesus was leading us.

When Jesus becomes our first concern, we can handle challenges with more grace. Jesus renews our peace, gives us wisdom for our next right thing, and enables us to navigate our priorities step by step.

Simplifying life begins with changing our priorities. This spiritual discipline takes time to implement and diligence to maintain. The reason for de-cluttering is the reward of freeing up time and mental space to pursue God in earnest.

Discussion Questions:

  1. What does simplifying your life look like to you? What are some specific areas of your life where you could simplify? (Encourage personal reflection and identify areas for change.)
  2. What are the benefits of simplifying your life, both practically and spiritually?

SERVING GOD’S AGENDA NOT OURS

“This is what I told them: ‘Obey me, and I will be your God, and you will be my people. Do everything as I say, and all will be well!” – Jeremiah 7:23.

Have you ever had your agenda collide with someone else’s agenda? As a teenager, has your agenda ever collided with your parents’ agenda for the weekend? You plan one thing, but they plan something else for you. As a spouse, has your agenda for the money ever collided with your spouse’s agenda for the money? At work, does your agenda clash with the agenda of others on how to move the business forward? Somewhere in some season, there will be a clash of agendas. Fortunately, these conflicting agendas can be worked out to everyone’s satisfaction with some compromise.

We have the choice every day to set our agendas, but have we stopped to consider what God wants us to do with our agenda? How often do we pray that God guides our steps and aligns our desires with His greater purpose? Do we pray that His agenda takes precedence over our plans and grants us the wisdom to discern His will in every situation? Are we willing to surrender our ambitions and embrace the path He laid out for us, even if it differs from what we imagined? We can only pick up God’s agenda when we choose to lay down our agenda.   

God is constantly revealing His agenda to you as you journey with Him. On life’s long path, you will experience many things. You will experience relationships (good and bad), successes and failures, blessings and trials, mountain tops and valleys. You will work, have friends, be offended, and offend others. You will make good, bad, and maybe even ugly decisions. As you travel through life, God will reveal some things to you along the way that will help you understand His agenda for your life and help you make adjustments to your life that will line you up more and more into the center of His will for your life.

There were many demands and expectations upon Jesus, but His focus was always to please the Father.  His agenda wasn’t built around pleasing Himself or others. He was about God’s agenda and not His own: “My nourishment comes from doing the will of God, who sent me, and from finishing his work” (John 4:34). Jesus says in John 5:19, “…I tell you the truth, the Son can do nothing by himself. He does only what he sees the Father doing. Whatever the Father does, the Son also does.” Jesus only did what the Father did, and so should we.

When we choose to lay our agenda for His agenda, we get to build His kingdom here on Earth. Our goal is to be like Jesus and leave room for His agenda. God is always on the move, even when we don’t see it (John 5:17). He has an agenda for busy and mundane days. All we have to do is choose His agenda over our own.

Discussion Questions:

  1. What do you need to add or take away from your agenda to pursue His agenda? 
  2. What is the difference between seeking the “plans” God may have for us and simply seeking Him?
  3. What could be done to ensure you seek God’s agenda this year?

LITTLE BY LITTLE

“The Lord your God will clear away these nations before you little by little. You may not make an end of them at once, lest the wild beasts grow too numerous for you.” – Deuteronomy 7:22.

For most of us, growth and development is never happening fast enough. Whether it is our personal growth, someone else’s, or the growth of a group we’re a part of, it can be frustrating when it seems to be going slowly. Somehow, we always assume that the process should move along more quickly than it does. The frustration and discouragement grow when what you want to happen stalls ultimately. We want a breakthrough, a miracle, or for God to work quickly.

The reality is that God is not in a hurry. He doesn’t feel the same pressure we feel to get things done by our timetable. Unlike us, God seems to be perfectly at peace with allowing things to progress gradually and in increments.

When we think things are too slow, we must step back and remember that while accepting Jesus as your Savior took a few moments, our transformation to be more Christlike will take a lifetime. In other words, to become the person God intends for you to become and realize your potential in Jesus fully will involve a gradual process. Philippians 1:6 says, “And I am certain that God, who began the good work within you, will continue his work until it is finally finished on the day when Christ Jesus returns.”

Deuteronomy 7:22 explains God’s strategy for helping the Israelites take possession of the Promised Land. That phrase in verse 22 is key: “little by little.” How would God give them the Promised Land? Not all at once in “one fell swoop,” but “little by little.”  If the land were cleared too quickly, wild animals would multiply and create new problems for the Israelites. This gradual approach ensured that the Israelites could settle the land securely, managing it as they went rather than being overwhelmed by rapid changes. God’s plan involved defeating the enemies and maintaining the land’s stability and sustainability for His people. This reveals a spiritual principle: that God often works — not only in Israel but in our lives too — “little by little.”

Sometimes, God may act quickly, and we experience that breakthrough, and God moves quickly, but more often than not, He works little by little. The good news is that God’s timing is perfect. Even when it feels slow to us, He’s moving in ways we can’t see. Maybe you’re waiting for a breakthrough in your marriage, finances, health, or spiritual life. You might feel like you’ve been wandering in the wilderness like the Israelites for a while now. But know this—God is faithful and working on your behalf, even when you can’t see it. He’s shaping your story, refining your faith, and preparing you for something greater.

The Lord changes us a little at a time.

Discussion Questions:

  1. How can we learn to lean into the process and trust God’s timing? 
  2. What does “little by little” mean to our spiritual growth this week?

DIRECTION IS SO MUCH MORE IMPORTANT THAN SPEED

“There is more to life than increasing its speed,”  – Mahatma Gandhi.

Psychologists explain that men generally do not like to ask for directions even when it seems logical and appropriate, especially when you are unsure you are traveling down the right road. Then you drive a little faster to make up for lost time, only to discover that you have retaken the wrong road. So you learn two truths: sometimes it is prudent to ask for directions, and secondly, the faster you travel on the wrong road, the farther you travel in the wrong direction.

So, is the point to travel slower, just in case you’re on the wrong road? The answer is no, because if you’re on the right road, traveling slower is not helpful. Nor does it make sense to travel faster, just in case you’re on the right road. The point is that direction is more important than your speed.

Many people point to their circumstances, the hand they were dealt, or what others have done to them as the primary reasons for the direction in their lives. There might be extenuating circumstances, but at the end of the day, you determine if your life is spiritually headed in the right direction.  The good news is our life is always headed in the right direction if you’re following Jesus.

Northpoint Pastor Andy Stanley wrote a book entitled The Principle of the Path. The book is shaped around one basic point–your path will determine your ultimate destination. This is a practical principle for helping us focus on the spiritual direction of our lives.

Andy writes that you don’t have problems to fix; you have directions that need to change. Andy uses an example from the book of Proverbs in the Bible. It’s a story of a young man who goes to town and is seduced by a prostitute. He doesn’t see the downside to his decision. He feels like a rock star in a club, but Proverbs says, “He followed her at once, like an ox going to the slaughter. He was like a stag caught in a trap, awaiting the arrow that would pierce its heart. He was like a bird flying into a snare, little knowing it would cost him his life.” (Proverbs 7:22-23) Wise people look as far down the road as possible when making decisions.

Jeremiah 6:16 says, “This is what the Lord says: ‘Stop at the crossroads and look around. Ask for the old, godly way, and walk in it. Travel its path, and you will find rest for your souls.” Being on the wrong road or at a crossroads is an unsettling and stressful place. Which way does God want me to take? When I ask and can’t find an answer, it’s good to seek God for peace in the path He wants me to take. Peace doesn’t mean there won’t be a difficult road ahead. It means that you will have the assurance that no matter what happens, you’re on the road God told you to take.

Discussion Questions:

  1. What areas of your life currently feel uncertain or lacking direction?
  2. How can you actively seek God’s guidance through prayer and scripture study?
  3. Are there any values or priorities you need to realign with to be on the right path?

REMEMBER THE SABBATH

 “We should rest in Christ alone for our salvation. But along with that, there is still an abiding principle that we ought to worship on the Lord’s Day and trust God enough to have a weekly routine where we cease from our normal labors… He made the Sabbath for man, not man for the Sabbath (Mark 2:27). God gives us the Sabbath as a gift; it’s an island of get-to in a sea of have-to. He also offers us the Sabbath. as a test; it’s an opportunity to trust God’s work more than our own. When I go weeks without taking adequate time off, I may or may not be disobeying the fourth commandment, but I’m certainly too convinced of my own importance and more than a little foolish. If my goal is God-glorifying productivity over a lifetime of hard work, there are few things I need more than a regular rhythm of rest.” –  Taken from Crazy Busy by Kevin DeYoung.

There’s a little phrase in Hebrews that should be attractive to every believer: “So then, there remains a Sabbath rest for the people of God” (Hebrews 4:9 ESV). Who wouldn’t want or need some rest?

Christianity often feels like more stuff to do, not less. Dallas Willard says that most of us jump into the busy part of Christianity—serving our neighbors, being active in the church, keeping up with spiritual disciplines—but we skip the “rest” part, which is crucial to accomplishing any other stuff. The goal is to work for God and be better at resting in Him. The Sabbath is one of the Bible’s most fundamental principles regarding time management. We must stop to enjoy God, His creation, and the fruits of our labor. The Sabbath is a day to recognize that God didn’t create us to accomplish tasks but to be in love with Him. That is our purpose. We weren’t made for a job. We weren’t designed for our ability to produce. We were created, first and foremost, for God.

One of the Ten Commandments says, “You have six days each week for your ordinary work, but the seventh day is a Sabbath day of rest dedicated to the Lord your God….” (Exodus 20:9-10). God told us to set aside one day out of seven for a good reason: He knew we needed it. If we work all the time, not only will we wear out physically, but we’ll also neglect our relationship with God.

The Sabbath is a day of rest and worship. Our bodies need rest, but our souls also need renewing—and that’s why the Sabbath should be a time for worship and instruction in God’s Word. Jesus regularly attended worship on the Sabbath: “When he came to the village of Nazareth, his boyhood home, he went as usual to the synagogue on the Sabbath and stood up to read the Scriptures” (Luke 4:16).

The Sabbath is important because it forces us to slow down and reflect.  And the busier your lifestyle is, the more you need to take time for reflection. Pausing to reflect on your relationship with God and others. It allows for rejuvenation and regeneration.

The Sabbath has a purpose for every one of us. It is a day we are meant to “keep holy.” (Exodus 20:8). It is a day to focus on God, meditate on truth, and enjoy creation. Stepping away from your daily work and setting aside time for a Sabbath rest allows you time to connect with God.

 Discussion Questions:

  1. Do you view Sabbath as a command or an invitation?
  2. Sabbath will look different for all of us because of our differing personalities. What might the terms stop, rest, delight, and worship look like for you?

RESTING ON THE SABBATH

“Remember to observe the Sabbath day by keeping it holy. You have six days each week for your ordinary work, but the seventh day is a Sabbath day of rest dedicated to the Lord your God. On that day no one in your household may do any work. This includes you, your sons and daughters, your male and female servants, your livestock, and any foreigners living among you. For in six days the Lord made the heavens, the earth, the sea, and everything in them; but on the seventh day he rested. That is why the Lord blessed the Sabbath day and set it apart as holy.” – Exodus 20:8-11.

A couple of friends were conversing one day when one asked the other, “What did you do on your day off?” The friend detailed a seemingly endless amount of responsibilities and activities that needed to be done but did not finish because his friend interrupted by saying, “That does not sound like a day off.” The friend looked somewhat perplexed and replied with a shrug, “Well, if I don’t get them done on that day, when will it get done?”

Busyness has become an unofficial badge of honor in our society. We try to do too much in too little time and wonder why we are always exhausted. We were not made to go 24/7. Like all the devices we use to fit everything in, we need time to recharge our batteries.

Exodus 20:8-11 tells us one of the ways to recharge our battery is the Sabbath.  The Sabbath is something we rarely talk about. We think it’s an Old Testament law that isn’t for us. The idea that setting aside a day to rest completely is not just a commandment but an act of worship where we acknowledge God’s power and authority by surrendering our need to work constantly, allowing ourselves to fully enter into His rest and be renewed in His presence; reflecting on the creation story where God rested on the seventh day, demonstrating the importance of taking time to pause and appreciate His work.

When was the last time you took a real Sabbath? Not a Saturday where you didn’t work but still ran errands, not a Sunday morning at church followed by doing the week’s laundry, not five minutes of reading the verse of the day from your Bible app before launching into the workday. We know the Sabbath means rest, but what is true and real rest?

Simply put, the Sabbath is stopping and sitting with the Lord. Deciding how to Sabbath isn’t a one-size-fits-all practice, but something we each decide for ourselves. This can be reading, spending time with friends, turning your phone off, painting, driving, etc. The idea is to do something peaceful, life-giving, and resting with no agenda other than to refresh your spirit. This practice will hopefully help you feel closer to God and more rested.

But Sabbath rest goes much deeper. The Sabbath is a time to step back from daily routines and actively reflect on our relationship with God, considering how we can better align our lives with His will. Setting aside time for quiet contemplation, prayer, and fellowship with others allows us to experience spiritual renewal and be refreshed for the week ahead.

Discussion Questions:

  1. How does the Sabbath represent a time to step away from our efforts and rely on God’s work? 
  2. How can you intentionally create a space for rest and reflection on your Sabbath day? 
  3. How can you incorporate acts of worship and service into your Sabbath?