“The Lord says, “I will guide you along the best pathway for your life. I will advise you and watch over you. Do not be like a senseless horse or mule that needs a bit and bridle to keep it under control.” – Psalm 32:8-9
The best life is the life lived with and led by God. But while it makes absolute sense, we often grapple with the idea. We are instinctively planners who like to have control over our schedule, but at the same time, we also know the world is unpredictable and often out of our control. That is why God should be the One leading us and why Psalm 32:8-9 is so fitting.
The Psalm 32 passage tells us that He will guide us along the best pathway for our lives. But immediately following this promise, the Lord gives us a necessary warning in verse 9, “Do not be like a senseless horse or mule that needs a bit and bridle to keep it under control.” It uses the imagery of a horse or mule to represent those who are unteachable, stubborn, and resistant to guidance. It is here that David ends the psalm by saying: “But he who trusts in the Lord, lovingkindness shall surround him. Be glad in the Lord and rejoice, you righteous ones; And shout for joy, all you who are upright in heart” (Psalm 32:10-11 NASB). God wants to guide us in the way we should go, but our response to His guidance determines our experience of His guidance.
Consider the metaphor for a few seconds: God has a barnyard of followers from the newly saved to the mature Christian. They are all different, but God loves them all and cares for them. He tells them where to go. He supplies a barn for their protection. Many of the mules are easygoing and compliant, but one mule is shortsighted, stubborn, and challenging to work with. This mule can’t seem to get with the program, so he has a bit and bridle put in his mouth, is hitched to a truck, and is dragged stiff-legged and snorting to the barn. That is the opposite of willingly letting God lead you.
Willingly letting God lead means surrendering your will and control to His guidance, trusting in His wisdom and plan for your life. It involves recognizing your limitations, seeking God’s direction through prayer and the Bible, and trusting that He will guide you in the right direction.
But letting God lead your life involves more than passive trust; it requires active engagement, resilience, and a willingness to embrace uncertainty. Many Christians believe that letting God lead their lives means waiting passively for His intervention. They think that God’s will will be done without any action on their part simply because they are relying on Him.
It can’t be sugar-coated. Letting go and trusting God is a messy process. If it feels hard, you’re not doing it wrong. If it were easy, I doubt many of us would truly learn. It wouldn’t stick. Going through hard things the hard way makes us stronger. No quick fixes. No magic formulas. It takes time and practice to choose to trust over and over again. Solomon demonstrates that in Proverbs 16:1-9: “We can make our own plans, but the Lord gives the right answer. People may be pure in their own eyes, but the Lord examines their motives. Commit your actions to the Lord, and your plans will succeed…We can make our plans, but the Lord determines our step.”
Discussion Questions:
- What does it mean to you to say that God is leading your life?
- How can we become more open and receptive to God’s leading in our daily lives?
- What standard stumbling blocks prevent us from trusting God’s guidance?
- How can we cultivate a more trusting relationship with God, knowing He is always leading us?