THE DAYS BEFORE THE CROSS

“He went on a little farther and bowed with his face to the ground, praying, “My Father! If it is possible, let this cup of suffering be taken away from me. Yet I want your will to be done, not mine.” ― Matthew 26:39.

Think of a time when a crisis arose, and you could not do anything about it. It may have felt like your only option was to sit back and do nothing. A person on death row lives in a state of constant uncertainty over when they will be executed, but with the knowledge that they will die in a calculated, planned manner, barring a miracle. Jesus knew when He would die; even worse, He knew how He would die.

The night before His crucifixion, Jesus went to the garden of Gethsemane with His disciples. He said to them, “Sit here while I go over there and pray” (Matthew 26:36). Jesus knew His time had arrived. He knew what was coming. “Jesus fully realized all that was going to happen to him, so he stepped forward to meet them. “Who are you looking for?” he asked” (John 18:4).

Judas came along with soldiers to arrest Jesus. As soon as He was arrested, all His friends and disciples fled into the darkness. The next few hours were a blur of beatings, mockings, and whippings with leather thongs tipped with balls of metal and shards of bone. Jesus’ skin was flayed off, and blood dripped off His head from the long thorns in His crown.

He also suffered the humiliation of numerous illegal mock trials before Annas (John 18:13), Caiaphas, and the religious leaders (Matthew 26:57–68); and Roman trials before Pontius Pilate, Herod, and Pilate again. The people shouted to release Barabbas instead of Jesus (Matthew 27:15-31). Wanting to release Jesus, Pilate appealed to them again. But they kept shouting, “Crucify Him! Crucify Him!” Pilate, who knew Jesus was innocent, finally bent to the crowd’s will and sent Jesus to the cross (Luke 23:1–25).

Through all this, Jesus never fought back. Although He could have called down lightning to destroy them all or dispatched an army of angels from Heaven to wipe them all out, He just took every physical punishment and every false accusation.

The trials we face in our lives never approach those that Jesus faced. But we have the same recourse that He did when faced with trials: prayer. When we face trials, Jesus urges us to keep praying. It may be that we will not get the outcome we desire, but we can learn from Jesus to be open with God about our innermost thoughts, boldly asking Him for what we want while at the same time recognizing that He loves us and can strengthen us even in trials.

Discussion Questions:

  1. Christ remained calm, and His speech was gracious to those who persecuted Him. How does our speech represent Christ to the world?
  2. Jesus spoke confidently about His identity before Pilate and the Jewish leaders. How can we live confidently as Christians to display Christ to those around us?

“ARE YOU ALSO GOING TO LEAVE?”

At this point many of his disciples turned away and deserted him. Then Jesus turned to the Twelve and asked, “Are you also going to leave?” – John 6:66-67.

In John, Chapter 6, Jesus is speaking with His disciples—not just the twelve, but a large group that had begun to follow Him by this time. Jesus had miraculously fed the five thousand by turning just a few loaves and fishes into baskets of food. The disciples and the crowds were overwhelmed with what they had experienced. The danger that Jesus was aware of and spoke to was the people following Him for the wrong reasons.

The Bible tells us many of them left Him. They were not going to follow Jesus. They wanted to follow Jesus according to their ideas about Jesus, but not Jesus according to Jesus. At that point, Jesus turned to the twelve disciples, those closest to Him, and asked: “Are you also going to leave?”

If you were to sit down one afternoon and evening and read the New Testament straight through, you would discover that it is written about a single theme—and that theme is captured in Jesus’ question, “Are you also going to leave?” That’s just another way of asking, “Are you loyal?” Are you going to be part of something bigger than yourselves, where everyone has a role, has a job to do, and has a way to serve?

The purpose of the Christian life is to live in service of God for God’s mission in the world. You were made to have an impact. You are made for more; you are made to do great things, and you are born to impact the world. You were made to have an impact for Jesus. That’s why we’re here.

We all have gifts. It doesn’t matter how well you know the Bible or how long you’ve been a Christian. There’s no probationary period before you can make an impact for God. It doesn’t matter how smart you are, how outgoing you are, or how many people you know. It doesn’t matter how talented you think you are. If you’re a believer, God has given you gifts to serve Him and build up His church.

Don’t fall for the lie that you have nothing to offer. Many people don’t serve because of this, but it is not a valid reason. Everyone has something to offer, some way to contribute. The church’s pastors and musicians get a lot of the credit, but the scaffolding that holds the church up are people faithfully and humbly serving behind the scenes.

Discussion Questions:

  1. Is there something keeping you from serving?

THE IMPORTANCE OF SERVING OTHERS

“Life’s most urgent question is: what are you doing for others?” – Martin Luther King jr. .

Looking around, we see a world full of needs, and there is only so much we can do. It would seem more practical and logical to have everyone take care of themselves first. That eliminates the concerns of who best to serve and how best to serve them. There is one problem with that idea. God wants us to serve others.

In John 13, Jesus gathered with His disciples just before Passover, and He knew His time with them was growing short. He wanted to teach them something important, and He did it in a way that made a lasting impact. Jesus wrapped a towel around Himself, filled a basin with water and washed their feet.

In Jesus’ time, washing someone’s feet was the work of a servant. By this time, the disciples knew that Jesus was Lord, so for Him to do the work of a lowly servant was shocking. But He washed all their feet so that He could serve them. Remember that Jesus is the King of Kings, the Messiah, fully God yet fully man, the creator of the universe, and He chose at that moment to humble Himself so He could serve His followers. And Jesus’ desire to serve us didn’t end with washing the disciples’ feet. His whole life, death, and resurrection testify to His desire to serve us with grace and love. Now, this doesn’t mean that you should go out and literally wash people’s feet. It means that following Jesus means serving others.

Many people believe that being “called” by God is something only missionaries, pastors, church elders, and other church leaders experience. But the Bible says everyone is called to serve God by serving others. “For you have been called to live in freedom, my brothers and sisters. But don’t use your freedom to satisfy your sinful nature. Instead, use your freedom to serve one another in love” (Galatians 5:13).

We need to pause and remember that we are not saved by serving but for serving.  God is more interested in why you serve others than how well you serve them. He’s always looking at your heart, serving willingly and eagerly out of love for Jesus and gratitude for all He’s done for you.

What is the Lord stirring in your heart to do this week? Ask for His wisdom to see things through His eyes. Do you need to be praying for someone? Is God putting on your heart to send a note of encouragement? Have you wanted to help with cleaning at the church or maybe obeying that step of faith to lead a small group? Or maybe it is the gift of hospitality because the dining room or kitchen table in a believer’s home is one of the most impactful locations for ministry. Or maybe He is asking you to serve in the children’s ministry. Whatever the Lord is preparing your heart for, remember that you serve Him by serving others.

Discussion Questions:

  1. Our devotion to God is illustrated, demonstrated, and authenticated by serving others.  Agree or disagree?
  2. What hurdles do you have serving others?
  3. What must you do, beginning today, to acquire the authentic heart of a servant?

BLESSED TO BE A BLESSING

“Don’t just count your blessings. be the blessing other people count on.” – Anonymous.

Blessed to be a blessing is a Biblical principle that teaches us something about God’s expectations for each of us. God blesses us because He loves us, and so we can be a blessing to others. The blessings God gives us are intended to be shared.

Paul teaches the church in Corinth, “All praise to the God and Father of our Master, Jesus the Messiah! Father of all mercy! God of all healing counsel! He comes alongside us when we go through hard times, and before you know it, he brings us alongside someone else who is going through hard times so that we can be there for that person just as God was there for us….” (2 Corinthians 1:3-4 MSG). Proverbs 11:25 teaches that “the generous will prosper; those who refresh others will themselves be refreshed.” Jump into the New Testament, and you will find more verses like this such as Matthew 5:7; “God blesses those who are merciful, for they will be shown mercy.”

We live in a world of negativity, heartbreak, and turmoil, and people desperately seek blessings. As Christians, we are called to be that blessing. However, we cannot indeed bless others if we do not understand how blessed we are by accepting the blessings God has given us.

It can be easy to become blinded to God’s blessings because of the frantic pace of life. That is why the Word of God is so important. The more time we spend reading and reflecting on God’s Word, the more we see God’s love and how He is constantly working for our good. When we fully understand how blessed we are, the more likely we are to share those blessings with others.

Taking it a step further, it is a privilege to serve and bless people. Have you ever wondered if people feel blessed when they step into your life? What constitutes a life of blessing?

Being a blessing means living out our faith in a way that positively impacts the people around us. It means showing love and compassion, being honest and sincere, and doing what we can to make someone’s day. Ultimately, this makes us truly happy when we can make someone else’s life just a little bit better.

So whether it’s taking the time to listen attentively, lending an encouraging word, or simply doing something kind for no reason, letting others know that we care about them is one of the most valuable things we can do.

A hoarded blessing won’t ever be enjoyed as richly as a shared one. Using your gift to meet someone else’s needs glorifies God by demonstrating His grace at work in your life. Don’t let His generous provisions end with you. Pass them on and discover the joy of a never-ending cycle of blessings.

Discussion Questions:

  1. Write down how you have been blessed, and thank God for those blessings.
  2. When blessed, you have the resources to be a blessing. What would it (or does it) look like to implement this reality into your life?

PREPARING YOUR HEART FOR EASTER

“The best news of the Christian gospel is that the supremely glorious Creator of the universe has acted in Jesus Christ’s death and resurrection to remove every obstacle between us and himself so that we may find everlasting joy in seeing and savoring his infinite beauty.” –  John Piper,

Nothing in all of history is as significant as the death and resurrection of Jesus Christ. That’s why Easter is so important to Christians. Easter provides a special opportunity to worship Jesus more fully. We should approach the holiday with all the reverence, wonder, and gratitude it deserves. With Easter nine days away, we should prepare our hearts for Easter by turning our thoughts to Jesus, His sacrifice, His love, and His victory. The key to making the most of Easter is to prepare so Easter weekend doesn’t get overlooked, buried in your busy spring schedule, or filled with activities that don’t allow space for Jesus. The goal is not to underappreciate Easter.

Take a moment and read through the accounts of Jesus’ life on earth in the Gospels. When you read the gospels, you will walk alongside Jesus and His disciples as He begins His public ministry. You will be in awe as He heals the sick and performs miracles. You will see His compassion and love as you listen to His teachings. You will be emotionally devastated with His followers as He is hung on a cross. You will be filled with joy when the stone is rolled away on that third day.  And you’ll be in awe of how God planned and orchestrated every detail and how the Bible is one story of God’s love for humanity and His plan to rescue them.

The temptation is to treat Easter as an ending. But there is no ending. Easter was a revolution, and nothing would ever be the same again. When a man who claims to be God rises from the dead, “business as usual” goes by the wayside. Easter isn’t just a time to pause and reflect on some pleasant truths we tend to forget about the rest of the year. It is the very foundation of our faith. The cross, the empty grave, and the resurrected Jesus not only give us a reason to hope for change, but they also give us the power to change. Rather than us trying to change from our efforts, the resurrection changes us. In 2 Corinthians 5:17, Paul tells us, “This means that anyone who belongs to Christ has become a new person. The old life is gone; a new life has begun!”

As Christians, we are more blessed than we could ever comprehend, and there is nothing we can do to repay our Savior for this sacrifice. But this Easter, let’s try to do just that. We can take the time to thank God for His presence with us and express gratitude for the salvation we have in Christ through worship and prayer.

But God is so rich in mercy, and he loved us so much, that even though we were dead because of our sins, he gave us life when he raised Christ from the dead. (It is only by God’s grace that you have been saved!) For he raised us from the dead along with Christ and seated us with him in the heavenly realms because we are united with Christ Jesus” (Ephesians 2:4-6).

Discussion Questions:

  1. What can you do to prepare for Easter? 

DO YOU LIKE SURPRISES?

“God often surprises us at unexpected moments.” – Unknown.

Do you love surprises, or do you hate them? One group loves the element of surprise, while another avoids surprises at all costs. You will experience surprises, and you shouldn’t be surprised when God surprises you.

Surprising isn’t just a characteristic God demonstrates in our lives; it’s one He repeatedly exhibits throughout the Bible. Name virtually any story in the Bible, and you’ll find some surprise.

God shocked Moses by calling him to lead his people to their new home. Sarah laughed when God decided to grant her prayer to have a child, long after she ever believed it was possible. Elijah discovered God’s wonder, not in the crashing roar of a storm or earthquake but in a whisper. The angel visited Mary, startling her with the news that she would give birth to the Son of God. The disciples were amazed at seeing Jesus perform miracles and walk on water. No matter how vivid his imagination, Saul never expected to experience Jesus on that Damascus Road. And let’s not forget the greatest surprise of all: God in the human form of Jesus, coming to earth to die for our sins.

We live in the potential of a surprise from God all the time.  The question is, will the surprises of life paralyze us? Of course, it will challenge our faith and trust in Him, and it’s human nature to question and wonder why God would allow certain things to happen. When God surprises us with an opportunity, our first reaction is to view it from the perspective of our sufficiency. We fear the unknown, we fear the loss, and we fear the uncertainty. We often are surprised because we put God in a box and expect Him to act in specific ways, preferably how we see things playing out. God’s plans may catch us by surprise, but they never surprise Him. He knows the plans that He has for us.  You must be prepared to trust His plan, knowing it could contain a few surprises.

In the face of surprises, we have God’s grace. We know that God will give us enough grace and strength to get through anything we are going through, even if that includes a few future surprises that we don’t like. At times, God’s plan can be intimidating or even scary. You may be intimidated by its demands or disappointed. So, let yourselves be surprised by God.

Don’t be afraid of surprises, afraid that they will shake you up. Surprises make us insecure, but they also change the direction we are going in. Sometimes, we need to remind ourselves of what God has done and demonstrated about Himself to see what He is doing now or trust what He might do or will do in the future.

Discussion Questions:

  1. How do you feel about surprises?
  2. What would it take for you to let go and let God show you the next step in His plan for you? Is fear holding you back?

DO YOU TRUST GOD?

“It was now about the sixth hour, and there was darkness over the whole land until the ninth hour, while the sun’s light failed. And the curtain of the temple was torn in two. 46 Then Jesus, calling out with a loud voice, said, “Father, into your hands I commit my spirit!” And having said this he breathed his last.” — Luke 23:44–46 (ESV).

Most of us have trust scars. These are wounds from trusting someone that have healed over time but left a scar. At some point in our lives, someone has betrayed us, tricked us, or let us down. As we look at the scars, we wonder why we placed our trust in that person in the first place. We become hesitant or at least slow to trust anyone.

 In Luke 23: 44-46 passage, Jesus is in the middle of the most painful and difficult moment of His life. He is on the cross, surrounded by thieves on His right and left. He had been beaten, crucified, and left for dead.  The taunting crowds are gathered, and at Christ’s feet are those gambling for His clothes.

Before He draws His last breath, He entrusts His spirit into His father’s hands. What He had spent His life working for was coming to an end. In His darkest moment, and when things made no sense, Jesus trusted God.  Despite incredible pain, suffering, darkness, and sorrow, God was worthy of Jesus’ trust.

What about us? Can we honestly say that we completely trust God, not just on the good days but even on those days of confusion, pain, and suffering? Because God loves you, you can show trust in Him by discussing your feelings and circumstances through prayer. When you trust, you go to God when life is good and when life is hard. You trust that God will ultimately take care of the rest. In trust, you do not look for security in other things; you look to God to hold you securely under challenging circumstances. You won’t do this perfectly, but God is kind and patient with you while you learn to trust Him.

There may be people in your life that you should not trust or cannot trust now. But you can always trust God, no matter the circumstances.

Discussion Questions: 

  1. Which aspect of your life do you struggle most when trusting God? How can you address that area this week?  

PSALM 31 AND COMMITMENT

“In you, O Lord, do I take refuge; let me never be put to shame; in your righteousness deliver me! Incline your ear to me; rescue me speedily! Be a rock of refuge for me, a strong fortress to save me! For you are my rock and my fortress; and for your name’s sake you lead me and guide me; you take me out of the net they have hidden for me, for you are my refuge. Into your hand I commit my spirit; you have redeemed me,” – Psalms 31:1-5.

As Jesus hung on the Cross, humiliated and in excruciating pain, He gave us a powerful example of surrender. Perfect in every way, He did not stoop to self-pity, anger, or regret. The cruelty He had received from so many did not deter Him from the continual surrender of His life to the Father and His holy will.

In His last moments, Jesus quoted the Old Testament.  No doubt weary from physical suffering and struggling for every breath, Jesus shouted the words of Psalm 31:5. Luke 23:46 says He called out with a loud voice: “Father, into your hands I commit my spirit!” Those were the last words He spoke from the cross. According to Luke 23:46, “and having said this he breathed his last.”

He borrowed these words from David. The Lord certainly didn’t need to have words put into His mouth. The context here is that David is fleeing from his son, Absalom. Things are not going well, and so he is desperately in need of sustenance, strength, and the preservation of his life. David was asking God for protection from the enemy and stated that he had committed himself to God’s hands because God had redeemed him.

 At the beginning of Psalm 31, the emphasis is clearly on God being a refuge. God is called “my rock and fortress,” He is the one who will “lead me and guide me,” He will “take me out of the net they have hidden for me,” He will never let me “be put to shame,” He will “deliver me,” incline His ear to me,” and “rescue me.”

Whatever the world throws at you, put your trust in God. Put life over into God’s hands and not your own. Leave everything in God’s hands; eventually, you’ll see God’s hand in everything. Isaiah 41:9-10 says, “I have called you back from the ends of the earth,  saying, ‘You are my servant.’ For I have chosen you and will not throw you away. Don’t be afraid, for I am with you. Don’t be discouraged, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you. I will hold you up with my victorious right hand”  (Isaiah 41:9-10).

Isaiah poetically and beautifully describes us as servants of the Lord, chosen and accepted by Him. There is no need to fear or be dismayed because God’s presence is pronounced and personal. Jesus died and committed His spirit to His Father so He might fulfill God’s promises.

Discussion Questions:

  1. From this Psalm, what do you think David expected of God (Psalm 31:1-3)?
  2. Why do you think that David was confident in his expectations (Psalm 31:3-4)?
  3. Why does it mean that God is our refuge? 

FATHER, INTO YOUR HANDS I COMMIT MY SPIRIT

Then Jesus, calling out with a loud voice, said, “Father, into your hands I commit my spirit!” And having said this he breathed his last.”- Luke 23:46 (ESV).

Jesus didn’t come to restore social justice or world peace. He didn’t come merely to heal the sick or to give us a good example for how to live moral lives. He came for a different purpose. He came to give His life as a ransom for many. It wasn’t easy. He faced a state of loneliness, agony, disappointment, denial, and desertion. And then there is the fact that He knew.

Jesus knew what lay ahead of Him as He prayed in Gethsemane but still struggled with it (Luke 22:39-44). The night before His arrest, Jesus pleads to be released from His burden if it’s God’s will. In Luke 22:42, Jesus prays, “Father, if you are willing, please take this cup of suffering away from me. Yet I want your will to be done, not mine.” He knew it was God’s will but didn’t want it to be. He knew it was right, but He didn’t want it to happen, but He was committed to His Father’s will.

Jesus could have saved himself and come down from the cross. He had the power to do so. Hecklers even encouraged Him to use His heavenly influence to free Himself. In Luke 23:37 the soldiers say, “…If you are the King of the Jews, save yourself!”  Jesus chose not to save Himself but to free us instead. Jesus came to earth because of the unfathomable love of God for His creation

Jesus chose His last words carefully when He said, “Father, into your hands I commit my spirit.”  Jesus is declaring His allegiance to God and His plan. As Christ-followers, we can follow His lead.

 Commitment is a choice. It means making up your mind. Commitment means driving a stake in the ground and laying claim to one life, one focused goal: following Jesus Christ. So, we need to continually ask ourselves self-probing questions to see if our commitment is what it should be. Does your life show commitment to Christ?

Sometimes, we must get back to the basics and consider our commitment to Christ. Jesus is looking for disciples who will follow Him and make Him the most important part of their lives so that He controls every part. He is looking for commitment.

When your heart is sold out (committed) to Him, and you fully trust that God will guide you in the best way possible, you will begin to shine. You have to be willing to do what God wants and want what He wants in your life. As you do that while trusting Him, God can do great things in and through you.

Jesus committed His spirit to God and so should we. Jesus’s pain and sacrifice were for a better purpose, to bring others closer to the Father. We can also commit our trials and circumstances, knowing God can use them for greater purposes and bring us closer to God.

Discussion Questions:

  1. What are you sacrificing? For what do we strive? What happens to our talents and dreams as soon as we are committed to God’s will?
  2. What can we do this week to strengthen our commitment to God?  

HOW WOULD YOU DEFINE GOD?

The sovereignty of God is often questioned because man does not understand what God is doing. Because He does not act as we think He should, we conclude He cannot act as we think He would.” –  Jerry Bridges

A weekend edition of the Wall Street Journal ran an interesting article titled “Re-Defining God” about how so many in our modern world are redefining who God is. One seminary professor said, “People seek out new gods the way they seek out new products in the marketplace.” If you are already a believing Christian, the question of who God is might seem like a no-brainer. However, a moment’s reflection will reveal how vital it is to think about this question.

If you asked ten believers to describe God in one word, the answers would probably be things like omniscient, omnipresent, omnipotent, loving, forgiving, trustworthy, holy, righteous, eternal, indescribable, etc. At the end of the day, does it matter what word(s) you choose? It does because how you describe someone reveals how and what you value that individual. You can describe God in a way that positions Him as the lynchpin in a religious system. Or your description can position God as someone you have a life-changing relationship with. Your answer will likely determine whether you describe a God you know or just a God you know about.

Where do you start in describing God? It’s normal to think we need a prepared explanation of what we believe about God. But while it is good to know what you believe, book-style prepared descriptions often fail to resonate with people. There are some basics in how to describe God.

First, God is Spirit who exists apart from this world and is above and beyond it. God is Trinity – Father, Son, and Spirit. He is three in one. Father, Son, and Holy Spirit are distinguishable persons within the Trinity and have different functions, yet they are perfectly united in the being of God.

God is infinite, without beginning or end or any limitation at all. He is self-existent and not dependent on anyone for anything. He is consistent and unchanging. He rules over all and is the final cause of all that happens in His universe. He is everywhere and knows everything. He is pure and perfect and therefore against evil, deceit, injustice, and wrongdoing. Jesus, the Son of God, reveals God to us perfectly.

Who God is determines everything else. So, we need to know who our God is. And thankfully, He hasn’t left us in the dark. We don’t have to work out His identity or speculate about what He’s like, for He has revealed Himself to us in the person of the Son. “The Son radiates God’s own glory and expresses the very character of God, and he sustains everything by the mighty power of his command. When he had cleansed us from our sins, he sat down in the place of honor at the right hand of the majestic God in heaven” (Hebrews 1:3).

Maybe you cannot find the perfect words to describe knowing God. That’s okay. Be yourself. Describe your personal experience of God. Then trust the Holy Spirit to do what only He can do in opening the other person’s mind to what you’re saying.

Discussion Questions:

  1. God is…? How would you complete that sentence?