“The thief’s purpose is to steal and kill and destroy. My purpose is to give them a rich and satisfying life.” – John 10:10
Jesus once told Nicodemus in John 3:3, “…unless you are born again, you cannot see the Kingdom of God.” If He were speaking to many modern Christians today, He might say something just as unsettling: You must be bored again.
When you first read the phrase “You must be bored again,” your natural reaction is probably, Huh?—because boredom is not something we associate with spiritual growth. We equate faith with excitement, passion, and a sense of constant movement, not repetition. We do not dislike the mundane because it lacks meaning; we dislike it because it refuses to entertain us. We resist boredom because it confronts our expectations of God. We often want Him to be dramatic, surprising, and emotionally affirming. When He works slowly—through routine prayers, ordinary work, and repeated obedience—it feels like something is missing.
The Bible has no shortage of repetition. Israel gathered manna every morning—same food, same instructions, same dependence. The Psalms repeatedly rehearse the same truths. Jesus taught His disciples to pray the same words daily. Even spiritual maturity itself is described not as intensity, but as endurance.
Boredom exposes whether we are following God for the experience or for God Himself. Anyone can worship when they feel inspired. Anyone can pray when answers come quickly. But boredom invites a quieter obedience—the kind that keeps kneeling when heaven feels silent and keeps loving when nothing feels dramatic. What remains is simple faithfulness: praying because God is worthy, not because it feels powerful; obeying because He is Lord, not because it feels rewarding.
Being bored again also teaches patience with God’s pace. We live in a culture of instant results and constant updates. God, however, seems committed to slow formation. He grows fruit in seasons, not moments. Much of what He does in us happens beneath the surface, invisible and unspectacular. It is a declaration that God’s presence is independent of our emotional state.
When Jesus speaks of new life, He does not promise constant exhilaration. He promises abiding—remaining, staying, continuing. That kind of life requires us to be bored again and again, without abandoning trust. It asks us to believe that God is just as present on the thousandth ordinary day as He was in the first moment of wonder.
Perhaps boredom is not a signal to escape, but a call to stay. To keep praying. To keep loving. To keep showing up. And to trust that the God who formed galaxies is also forming us—slowly, quietly, faithfully—one ordinary day at a time.
You must be bored again—not because God has gone silent, but because He is teaching you to listen more deeply.
Discussion Questions:
- What do you tend to assume about God’s presence or activity when your spiritual life feels routine or boring, and how might those assumptions reveal where your trust actually lies?
- In what ways might boredom be forming you spiritually rather than hindering you, and what practices could help you remain faithful when growth feels invisible?
- Where in your life are you tempted to seek novelty or intensity instead of consistency, and how might choosing steady obedience reshape your understanding of faithfulness?