“You have loved righteousness and hated wickedness….” – Hebrews 1:9 (ESV).
Becoming like Christ is a central goal of the Christian faith, involving a spiritual transformation of thought, character, and action, guided by the Holy Spirit and achieved through a lifelong process of faith, repentance, and growth in grace and knowledge of Jesus. This journey includes studying Scripture, practicing spiritual disciplines, serving others with humility and love, and participating in a community of believers. The process is not about perfection but about being shaped into the image of Christ.
Is it possible to be like Jesus? Can we actually have the character of the heavenly Father? And more importantly, do we really want to become more like Jesus?
For centuries, writers have filled books about Jesus. But one work remains the ultimate source of all we really need to know about our Lord and Savior. To become more like Jesus, spend time in His Word. The Bible teaches us how to act like Jesus. And that includes learning how to love like Jesus. While we will never exhaust all the Scriptures have to say about Him, we will never find a better guide for living—and loving—like Jesus.
Jesus talked a lot about love. “This is my commandment: Love each other in the same way I have loved you.” (John 15:12) and “There is no greater love than to lay down one’s life for one’s friends” (John 15:13). When most people think of Jesus, they think of love. Jesus didn’t just talk about it. He lived it. He touched lepers, embraced sinners, healed the sick, and extended forgiveness to adulterers seconds after they sinned. It is love—unconditional, agape love—that binds believers together, and knits us to the heart of God: “I have revealed you to them, and I will continue to do so. Then your love for me will be in them, and I will be in them” (John 17:26). He extends love to include one’s enemies (Matt 5:44-45). Take a quick look at the early Church and you’ll see that level of love would become the hallmark of Christianity long after Jesus’s resurrection.
Jesus demonstrated His love by pouring into the lives of other people. Sometimes, it was an individual, like Zacchaeus (Luke 19:1-10). Other times, it was a large crowd, like when He fed the multitude (Mark 6:30-44). Most notably, Jesus invested in the lives of His disciples. For example, while He shared parables with crowds, He explained them to His disciples in private (Mark 4:33-34).
We can show love by serving as a mentor or by simply being available to others. You can pour into the lives of others in small groups. You can invest in your church by serving. You love like Jesus when you make an intentional effort to be His hands and feet for someone else.
When you are available to someone else, that’s the love of Jesus, and that begins to transform you as you’re letting Him work in you and through you. People don’t have to go through everything alone. Remember that old saying, people don’t care how much you know until they know how much you care.
If we love Jesus, then we will love what He loves, which is people. And as we practice loving like He loved, we become more like Him.
Discussion Questions:
- How does love have the potential to make us more like Jesus?
- Is Jesus’s way of loving a high, perhaps impossibly high, bar? If so, how can imperfect people like us strive to embody extraordinary love?