“But Jesus replied, “My Father is always working, and so am I.” – John 5:17.
Every year Christmas arrives with a familiar rhythm—lights hung, trees trimmed, gifts purchased, recipes repeated, traditions played on loop like a beloved carol. And while these customs carry comfort and joy, they can also create an unspoken expectation: that Christmas should feel the same as it always has. But the truth is, life changes. We change. Families shift, blessings and losses mingle, and our hearts carry both gratitude and grief into December. This is why, perhaps more than ever, we need to take a different look at Christmas this year.
When Jesus stepped into our world, He didn’t come as anyone expected. Israel longed for a king, but God sent a baby. They wanted political victory; He gave spiritual salvation. They sought a throne, but He chose a manger. From the very beginning, Christmas was God’s holy interruption of our assumptions. It was heaven’s way of saying, “For just as the heavens are higher than the earth, so my ways are higher than your ways and my thoughts higher than your thoughts” (Isaiah 55:9).
So what does it mean for us to think differently this Christmas? First see people, not pressures. Christmas easily becomes a season of doing—shopping, wrapping, planning, hosting, performing. But Jesus consistently prioritized people over expectations. He saw Zacchaeus in a tree. He noticed the woman who touched His garment. He welcomed children others dismissed. If we think differently this Christmas, we need to pause long enough to see the faces across the table—not their flaws, not their politics, not their quirks—but the image of God stamped on each one. Your greatest Christmas gift may not be under the tree. It may be the grace you extend, the patience you choose, or the forgiveness you offer.
Secondly, treasure quiet over noise. The world turns Christmas into a season of noise—ads, events, crowds, scrolling, rushing. But the first Christmas was grounded in holy quiet: a night sky, a stable, a whisper of angelic song drifting over shepherds half-asleep. God often works in the stillness. To think differently this Christmas is to carve out silence. To sit with Scripture. To allow your soul to hear again the gentle truth: “Unto you a Savior is born.”
Third, notice God in the ordinary. The shepherds didn’t expect God to show up in their field. Mary didn’t expect a Savior to grow beneath her heart. Joseph didn’t expect the Messiah to be sleeping in his workshop. And yet God delights in making the ordinary miraculous. Look around this Christmas: in a child’s laughter, in a quiet dinner, in a long-held tradition, in an unexpected moment of kindness. God is nearer than we think.
This Christmas, may you think differently—not by rejecting the familiar joys, but by embracing the deeper truth beneath them. Christ has come. Christ is with us. Christ is for us.
Discussion Questions:
- When you think about your past Christmas seasons, what patterns or expectations do you tend to fall into?
- What pressures do you feel most strongly this time of year?
- If this Christmas feels different—because of change, loss, distance, or new circumstances—how does the hope of Christ meet you there?