“There is no man upon the earth who isn’t earnestly seeking after happiness, and it appears abundantly by the variety of ways they so vigorously seek it; they will twist and turn every way, ply all instruments, to make themselves happy men.” —Jonathan Edwards.
We spend so much of life chasing happiness. We chase it in accomplishments, in purchases, in relationships, in distractions, and even in our own ability to control the world around us. And yet, the harder we chase happiness, the more it seems to slip through our fingers. The Bible offers a surprising truth: happiness isn’t found by running after it—happiness is found by running to Jesus.
In John 15, Jesus invites His disciples into a relationship that is rooted in Him. “Remain in me…so that you will be filled with my joy. Yes, your joy will overflow!” (John 15:4, 11). Notice what Jesus doesn’t say. He doesn’t say, “Do more and then you’ll be happy,” or “Fix yourself and then I’ll give you joy.” He says, remain or abide with Me. We attach happiness to circumstances. Jesus roots it in Himself. Paul writes from prison —“Rejoice in the Lord always.” (Philippians 4:4). Paul doesn’t rejoice because prison is pleasant. He rejoices because Jesus is present. True joy isn’t found where you are—it’s found in who is with you.
Happiness in Jesus doesn’t rise and fall with the economy, the news cycle, someone else’s opinion, or the mood of the day. When happiness is tied to circumstances, we become emotional yo-yos—up one moment, down the next. But Jesus offers us something better: a happiness that’s anchored. A happiness that storms can’t sink. A happiness that pain can’t steal or circumstances can’t corrupt.
Henry David Thoreau said, “Everyone needs to believe in something.” Turns out, his words are backed up by the American Psychological Association, which says that, “People are inherently wired to believe in something supernatural. It provides a sense of peace and well-being to know that our world has an intentional design.” In short, it gives us hope that the world will be okay. God’s Word (the most important source) agrees in Luke 1:45 (CEB), which says, “Happy is she who believed that the Lord would fulfill the promises he made to her.
God created us for happiness, and the only way we will find true happiness in this world is to seek the happiness that comes from leaning steadfastly into our God, who loves us and wants what is best for us in all seasons of our lives.
As we find our strength in Him, trusting in His Word and loving others selflessly, we will see that happiness is not so elusive after all. Happiness is not a worldly trait. It’s a gift from a God who delights in the joy of His children.
Today, Jesus isn’t offering you a momentary spike of happiness—He is offering you Himself. And when you have Him, you have joy that nothing in this world can take.
Discussion Questions:
- What are your initial thoughts or definitions of “happiness?”
- If true happiness is tied to a relationship with God, what does that mean for how you live each day?