“Sometimes life is so hard you can only do the next thing. Whatever that is, just do the next thing. God will meet you there.” – Elisabeth Elliot.
Scripture reminds us that life is not a race to be won but a journey to be walked. Yet many of us live as if we are perpetually late—rushing through days, conversations, and even prayers. We move so fast that we miss what God is doing right in front of us. Others move more slowly, concerned about the next step. Somewhere between frantic speed and hesitation may lie the perfect speed: the pace at which God intends us to live.
The Bible speaks often about timing. Ecclesiastes tells us, “For everything there is a season, a time for every activity under heaven” (Ecclesiastes 3:1). This verse doesn’t tell us what every moment should look like; instead, it points to discernment—knowing when to move, when to wait, when to speak, and when to be silent. The right speed is not about efficiency; it’s about alignment with God’s timing.
Jesus Himself modeled this perfectly. He was never hurried, yet He was never idle. Crowds pressed Him constantly, needs surrounded Him everywhere He went, but He refused to be driven by urgency alone. When Jairus begged Him to hurry to his dying daughter, Jesus stopped to speak with a woman who touched His cloak. From a human perspective, this delay seemed reckless. From God’s perspective, it was exactly right. Jesus moved at a pace shaped by obedience, not pressure.
Many of us struggle because we let circumstances—or other people’s expectations affect our speed. We rush because we fear falling behind. We slow down because we fear failure. Strength, however, is not found in frantic motion but in faithful dependence.
Finding the perfect speed requires listening. It means pausing long enough to ask God, is this a season to act or a season to wait? Prayer becomes not just a request for answers but a tuning of our hearts. When we slow down to listen, we often discover that God has already been guiding us—we were moving too fast to notice.
At the same time, waiting on God does not mean passivity. There are moments when faith requires us to move, even when we feel unprepared. Abraham left his homeland without knowing his destination. Peter stepped out of the boat while the waves still raged. In those moments, obedience meant trusting God enough to move forward at His command, not retreating into comfort or delay.
The perfect speed, then, is neither hurried nor hesitant. It is purposeful. It is steady. It is marked by trust. When we walk at God’s pace, we find that anxiety loosens its grip, clarity replaces confusion, and even difficult seasons gain meaning. We stop measuring our lives by productivity and start measuring them by faithfulness.
It is helpful to periodically evaluate the pace at which we live our lives. Are we moving too quickly, or too slowly? God’s invitation is gentle but clear: walk with Him. When we match our pace to God’s, we discover that the journey itself becomes a place of grace. And in that grace, we find rest—not because life is slow, but because it is rightly paced.
Discussion Questions:
- In your current season of life, do you find yourself more tempted to rush ahead of God or to hesitate when He is calling you to move? What fears, pressures, or expectations influence the pace you’re living at right now?
- What practical changes could help you better discern God’s timing this week—through prayer, rest, boundaries, or obedience? How might walking at God’s pace reshape the way you define success and faithfulness?