“Even though I have received such wonderful revelations from God. So to keep me from becoming proud, I was given a thorn in my flesh, a messenger from Satan to torment me and keep me from becoming proud. Three different times I begged the Lord to take it away. Each time he said, “My grace is all you need. My power works best in weakness.” So now I am glad to boast about my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ can work through me. That’s why I take pleasure in my weaknesses, and in the insults, hardships, persecutions, and troubles that I suffer for Christ. For when I am weak, then I am strong.” – 2 Corinthians 12:7-10.
What if this kind of humility that Paul showed in this passage defined the church today? What if we were comfortable sharing our weaknesses and embraced vulnerability? What if we didn’t worry about the opinion and approval of others because Jesus has already secured our approval?
This passage reminds us that our weaknesses are canvases for His strength—they are where we see Christ move, work, and transform. We can be open about our weaknesses, for they showcase Christ’s work within us. But how do we embrace vulnerability when every fiber in our being is fighting us to share our weaknesses? And that is understandable: the fear of judgment surfaces whenever we try our hand at being vulnerable.
Ann Voskamp once said that “Shame dies in safe spaces.” In other words, people will be more open in a forum where they genuinely feel safe. So, creating such a safe space within the church is vital. It’s about creating an environment where people who share freely are met with trust, support, and guaranteed confidentiality.
God modeled vulnerability by becoming human in Jesus Christ, experiencing pain and temptations. Jesus humbled himself, experiencing rejection, loss, disappointment, loneliness, and pain. He knew what it was like to be fully seen and not always understood, sharing His deepest feelings with His closest friends. We are called to imitate this example, showing love and acceptance as Christ did.
Vulnerability can be challenging because we often want to hide our brokenness from others. But what feels like weakness in admitting our brokenness becomes strength when placed in the redemptive hands of God.
Every community of believers is comprised of a diverse group of people, each on their unique spiritual journey. Most of us find ourselves in that messy in-between space of growth, where we are painfully aware of our weaknesses. The challenge is navigating this journey while fostering an environment where openness and honesty are encouraged and everyone feels safe enough to admit they have things to work on, but want to work on them together.
Discussion Questions:
- How is vulnerability personally defined? Does it seem like a strength or a weakness?
- Can someone recall a time when someone demonstrated Christ-like vulnerability? What was the impact on others?
- What fears or anxieties might hinder vulnerability in a faith community?