“The Christian life is not a life of extraordinary things, but a life of ordinary things done with extraordinary love.” — Elisabeth Elliot.
We live in a culture that has developed an unhealthy fascination with extraordinary people.
We celebrate the bestselling author, the influential leader, the viral preacher, the entrepreneur who builds a billion-dollar company, and the athlete who breaks records. Even in the church, we can sometimes assume that being greatly used by God means doing something so impressive that someone writes a book about it.
But what if God is less impressed with our accomplishments than we are? What if an extraordinary Christian life often looks remarkably ordinary?
Jesus spent thirty years of His earthly life in relative obscurity before beginning His public ministry. We know almost nothing about those years. He worked with His hands, lived in a small town, attended synagogue gatherings, ate meals, walked dusty roads, interacted with neighbors, and lived the rhythms of ordinary human life. Thirty years of ordinary life. Three years of public ministry. We sometimes imagine that the most spiritual moments of life are the dramatic ones—the mission trip, the answered prayer, the miraculous breakthrough, the great sermon, the moment when hundreds respond to the gospel. But Scripture repeatedly points us toward something different.
Jesus said, “…Whoever wants to be a leader among you must be your servant” (Matthew 20:26). Paul instructed believers to “Make it your goal to live a quiet life… (1 Thessalonians 4:11). And Jesus reminded His followers, “And if you give even a cup of cold water to one of the least of my followers, you will surely be rewarded”(Matthew 10:42).
God sees what we overlook. A parent patiently raising a child. A spouse faithfully loving after decades of marriage. A neighbor checking on someone lonely. A friend listening when someone needs to talk. A Christian choosing forgiveness instead of resentment. Someone quietly praying for a person who may never know they were prayed for. None of these things will probably go viral.
They may never appear on a stage. There may be no applause, recognition, or award. But they may be exactly what God uses to shape a life.
The danger of constantly chasing the extraordinary is that we can become dissatisfied with the ordinary. We start believing that our lives matter only when something significant is happening.
But Christianity is largely lived in the ordinary. Faithfulness happens on Tuesday afternoon.
Character develops when nobody is watching. Love is demonstrated through small acts repeated over time. Spiritual maturity is often formed in routines that seem almost boring.
That means we don’t need to manufacture significance. We don’t have to become famous, extraordinary, or impressive to live a life that matters. We need to be faithful with the life God has already given us.
You may never change the world.
But you can change someone’s world.
Discussion Questions
- Where might God be inviting you to stop chasing significance and start embracing faithfulness in the ordinary circumstances of your life?