“There is more to life than increasing its speed,” – Mahatma Gandhi.
Psychologists explain that men generally do not like to ask for directions even when it seems logical and appropriate, especially when you are unsure you are traveling down the right road. Then you drive a little faster to make up for lost time, only to discover that you have retaken the wrong road. So you learn two truths: sometimes it is prudent to ask for directions, and secondly, the faster you travel on the wrong road, the farther you travel in the wrong direction.
So, is the point to travel slower, just in case you’re on the wrong road? The answer is no, because if you’re on the right road, traveling slower is not helpful. Nor does it make sense to travel faster, just in case you’re on the right road. The point is that direction is more important than your speed.
Many people point to their circumstances, the hand they were dealt, or what others have done to them as the primary reasons for the direction in their lives. There might be extenuating circumstances, but at the end of the day, you determine if your life is spiritually headed in the right direction. The good news is our life is always headed in the right direction if you’re following Jesus.
Northpoint Pastor Andy Stanley wrote a book entitled The Principle of the Path. The book is shaped around one basic point–your path will determine your ultimate destination. This is a practical principle for helping us focus on the spiritual direction of our lives.
Andy writes that you don’t have problems to fix; you have directions that need to change. Andy uses an example from the book of Proverbs in the Bible. It’s a story of a young man who goes to town and is seduced by a prostitute. He doesn’t see the downside to his decision. He feels like a rock star in a club, but Proverbs says, “He followed her at once, like an ox going to the slaughter. He was like a stag caught in a trap, awaiting the arrow that would pierce its heart. He was like a bird flying into a snare, little knowing it would cost him his life.” (Proverbs 7:22-23) Wise people look as far down the road as possible when making decisions.
Jeremiah 6:16 says, “This is what the Lord says: ‘Stop at the crossroads and look around. Ask for the old, godly way, and walk in it. Travel its path, and you will find rest for your souls.” Being on the wrong road or at a crossroads is an unsettling and stressful place. Which way does God want me to take? When I ask and can’t find an answer, it’s good to seek God for peace in the path He wants me to take. Peace doesn’t mean there won’t be a difficult road ahead. It means that you will have the assurance that no matter what happens, you’re on the road God told you to take.
Discussion Questions:
- What areas of your life currently feel uncertain or lacking direction?
- How can you actively seek God’s guidance through prayer and scripture study?
- Are there any values or priorities you need to realign with to be on the right path?